Comments for wildaspie http://wildaspie.today.com Kaleidoscopy from the Wild Aspie Fri, 10 Jul 2009 06:33:53 +0000 http://www.today.com/version-2.3.1 Comment on Pondering Polyamory by Rig Daddy http://wildaspie.today.com/2009/01/25/pondering-polyamory/#comment-102 Rig Daddy Fri, 30 Jan 2009 00:11:26 +0000 http://wildaspie.today.com/2009/01/25/pondering-polyamory/#comment-102 Dear Wildaspie, my wife of 37 years and I are polyamorous. Is can and does work for many people. Finding others to include in our lives has not been easy, LOL. I wanted a boyfriend and tried dating sites and parties and blind want ads on Criagslist. NOTHING. Idiots for the most part. Finally a met a friend of a friend and WOW!. I totally agree, being poly has actually brought us MUCH closer together and we find real joy in each others fun relationships. Enjoy! BTW, if you want a "how-to" handbook, check out "Ethical Slut" Dear Wildaspie, my wife of 37 years and I are polyamorous. Is can and does work for many people. Finding others to include in our lives has not been easy, LOL. I wanted a boyfriend and tried dating sites and parties and blind want ads on Criagslist. NOTHING. Idiots for the most part. Finally a met a friend of a friend and WOW!. I totally agree, being poly has actually brought us MUCH closer together and we find real joy in each others fun relationships. Enjoy! BTW, if you want a “how-to” handbook, check out “Ethical Slut”

]]> Comment on Perceptions of Bravery by ravyn http://wildaspie.today.com/2009/01/26/perceptions-of-bravery/#comment-101 ravyn Wed, 28 Jan 2009 05:26:38 +0000 http://wildaspie.today.com/2009/01/26/perceptions-of-bravery/#comment-101 Bravery isn't not having fear; it's not letting it keep you from doing what you need to. In that respect, I think what you describe as your modus operandi fits. Bravery isn’t not having fear; it’s not letting it keep you from doing what you need to. In that respect, I think what you describe as your modus operandi fits.

]]> Comment on Pondering Polyamory by wildaspie http://wildaspie.today.com/2009/01/25/pondering-polyamory/#comment-100 wildaspie Mon, 26 Jan 2009 00:12:27 +0000 http://wildaspie.today.com/2009/01/25/pondering-polyamory/#comment-100 Thanks, Madrigalblue, both for taking the time to comment and your words of support. It certainly seems true that fidelity issues plague many couples, and maybe there would be less of those problems if people were more open to considering alternatives. Many might find, as we did, that opening the relationship brings them closer instead of driving them apart. Thanks, Madrigalblue, both for taking the time to comment and your words of support. It certainly seems true that fidelity issues plague many couples, and maybe there would be less of those problems if people were more open to considering alternatives. Many might find, as we did, that opening the relationship brings them closer instead of driving them apart.

]]> Comment on Pondering Polyamory by madrigalblue http://wildaspie.today.com/2009/01/25/pondering-polyamory/#comment-99 madrigalblue Sun, 25 Jan 2009 23:57:13 +0000 http://wildaspie.today.com/2009/01/25/pondering-polyamory/#comment-99 I can't imagine ever doing this, but I definitely support the right of two consenting adults to decide what is right for them! Sometimes if you don't go out on a limb and make choices like this if they are right for you, you could feel stifled and it could mess things up even more. I can’t imagine ever doing this, but I definitely support the right of two consenting adults to decide what is right for them! Sometimes if you don’t go out on a limb and make choices like this if they are right for you, you could feel stifled and it could mess things up even more.

]]> Comment on Pondering Polyamory by wildaspie http://wildaspie.today.com/2009/01/25/pondering-polyamory/#comment-98 wildaspie Sun, 25 Jan 2009 22:43:57 +0000 http://wildaspie.today.com/2009/01/25/pondering-polyamory/#comment-98 Actually, it isn't, and I made exactly that point. I can't help but think if you had read the entire post you wouldn't have made such an inane comment. Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to comment, though. Actually, it isn’t, and I made exactly that point. I can’t help but think if you had read the entire post you wouldn’t have made such an inane comment. Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to comment, though.

]]> Comment on Pondering Polyamory by vrajavala http://wildaspie.today.com/2009/01/25/pondering-polyamory/#comment-97 vrajavala Sun, 25 Jan 2009 22:35:19 +0000 http://wildaspie.today.com/2009/01/25/pondering-polyamory/#comment-97 the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence

]]> Comment on Dumb Feasts by Autism Insights http://wildaspie.today.com/2008/10/26/dumb-feasts/#comment-14 Autism Insights Sun, 26 Oct 2008 18:03:50 +0000 http://wildaspie.today.com/2008/10/26/dumb-feasts/#comment-14 My family has a dumb supper every Halloween to honor deceased loved ones. This is the first time I've heard anyone else mention it. My family has a dumb supper every Halloween to honor deceased loved ones. This is the first time I’ve heard anyone else mention it.

]]> Comment on NaNoWriMo 2008 by Autism Insights http://wildaspie.today.com/2008/10/19/nanowrimo-2008/#comment-12 Autism Insights Sun, 19 Oct 2008 22:15:08 +0000 http://wildaspie.today.com/2008/10/19/nanowrimo-2008/#comment-12 I've done it the last 2 years and I hope to do it again this year. Hope to see you there! I’ve done it the last 2 years and I hope to do it again this year. Hope to see you there!

]]> Comment on Trauma Cycle by Sheta http://wildaspie.today.com/2008/10/13/trauma-cycle/#comment-7 Sheta Fri, 17 Oct 2008 02:07:46 +0000 http://wildaspie.today.com/2008/10/13/trauma-cycle/#comment-7 Yeah. I think "exhaustion" needs to be added to that list, but it's also a "side-effect" of depression. I know I said I was going to be on tonight, but I am just too tired. I'm gonna lay down and watch a movie til I fall asleep. The Samhain issue is reaching critical tardiness, though, and I really have to get on it soon. I hope you are doing okay. *hug* Yeah. I think “exhaustion” needs to be added to that list, but it’s also a “side-effect” of depression. I know I said I was going to be on tonight, but I am just too tired. I’m gonna lay down and watch a movie til I fall asleep. The Samhain issue is reaching critical tardiness, though, and I really have to get on it soon.

I hope you are doing okay. *hug*

]]> Comment on Banned Books Week by Kelly http://wildaspie.today.com/2008/09/24/banned-books-week/#comment-3 Kelly Thu, 25 Sep 2008 01:52:00 +0000 http://wildaspie.today.com/2008/09/24/banned-books-week/#comment-3 I didn't know there was a banned books week! Thanks for the info! ~Kelly http://www.30somethingandsearching.today.com/ I didn’t know there was a banned books week! Thanks for the info!

~Kelly
http://www.30somethingandsearching.today.com/

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